Some people are more receptive to bathing at certain times of the day than at other times. So be sure to choose a good time, when the person is calm and rested. You also should allow plenty of time; rushing a person is a major trigger for agitation.

People with dementia pick up on body language and tone of voice, so you'll have a lot more success if you keep a relaxed warm manner and smile when approaching the person with the bathing invitation.

If the person usually resists bathing, don't use the word "bath." Instead, say something to which the person will most likely respond positively, such as "It's time to freshen up." The words you use can make all the difference in getting the person to accept the invitation!

Then, if needed, gently take the person's arm and guide him/her into the bathroom.

If the person is very resistant and a little coaxing isn't working, try later, after first doing an enjoyable activity together.