1. Speak slowly – it takes the person more time to understand and respond.

2. Use encouraging, not negative words or commands (e.g., "Don't", or "Sit down, you must eat!"). For example: "Look at this delicious food I made especially for you."


3. Always tell the person what you're serving.

4. Use pointing, light touch, or an occasional tap on the table to orient the person.

5. Use simple but specific verbal commands, such as "Lift your spoon" or "Scoop the apple sauce." Avoid saying something like "Finish eating, Mom."

6. Move slowly and calmly – rushing a person can trigger agitation.

7. Smile a lot – it can help reduce the person's stress (and yours) and make for a more relaxing mealtime.